Orange County Matchmakers Reveal Why You’re Still Single

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Being single for a certain amount of time has many benefits. You can experience a lot of self-growth and discovery during your single days. But if you have been single for as long as you can remember, then maybe you are doing something wrong that is preventing you from finding a man.

To solve this problem, you need to understand what you’re doing wrong so you can stop doing it.

Today, our Orange County matchmakers are going to show you why you’re still single and can’t get a guy. If you notice a couple of these things, it’s time to start making positive changes today so you can finally find the love you desire and deserve.

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1. You’re too serious.

You’re at an age where flirting and having meaningless conversations isn’t worth your time. You’d rather have a meaningful conversation with someone who’s quite possibly a future partner over chatting with someone who means nothing to you and will end up wasting a few minutes of your precious time. You want a guy who will stick with you through thick and thin.

And, well, that makes you a little too serious in the dating scene. You need to be a little more laid back with the guys you’re talking; otherwise, you’re going to scare everyone away. Try to lighten up a little and have fun creating casual conversations. Take it one step at a time before dismissing someone because you don’t think they have potential.

2. Your standards are too high.

You demand time. You don’t want a relationship where you barely see your boyfriend. You want to spend time with them, exploring your likes and overcoming your fears. You want him to call you throughout the day to check up on you and to see how your day is going.  But if you ask for too much, you could be disappointed in the end. If you are looking for a mirror or a Hollywood movie romance, we hate to break it to you, but that’s why you’re single today.

3. You don’t like flings.

They don’t provide you what you want from a relationship. They don’t give you commitment or sincerity. It’s not their thing. People who are into casual flings only seek out entertainment for when they are bored, but you seek sincerity and truthfulness. You want someone to spend the rest of your life with, and you have a hard time finding that person in today’s dating scene. Now this problem clearly isn’t your fault but rather the way dating is today.

If you keep coming across casual daters, it’s time you start looking in the right places. If you’re doing the online dating thing, it’s no wonder you’re struggling to meet relationship-ready men. If you want to meet quality men who are commitment-minded, contact our Orange County matchmakers today. We only work with men who are fit to date and emotionally ready for love.

4. You have anxiety about finding love.

Any time you approach a relationship from a sense of emptiness inside – like something is missing in your life and you’re trying to fill a void – it will be sensed by the men you date. And it won’t feel good for them.

When you’re confident in yourself, your vibes go something like this: “It’s nice to meet you, and we’ll see if I want to continue spending my time with you.” Cool, calm and collected.

But when you have underlying feeling of needing to be in a relationship, your vibes come out like this: “Do you like me?”

Energetically, it’s not attractive. In fact, it has the opposite effect on men. Honestly, it repels them. And this is probably why you’re single today.

If you’re single and struggling to find a boyfriend, do a little self-examination to get to the root of the problem. If you noticed any of these behaviors in your dating life, you have your answer. But now it’s up to you to make the changes if you want to find love.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded single men in Irvine, contact our Orange County matchmakers today. Let us do the matching for you. Plus, we’ll give you one-on-one dating coaching to ensure you’re feeling 100 percent confident in your dating life.

To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.


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