Single in OC? Love Cynic? OC Matchmakers Reveal the Signs

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Most people can agree – at least those who are happy in a loving and nurturing relationship – that love is one of the most incredible feelings in the world. But what if you’ve loved and lost – again and again – and AGAIN? Or what if you’ve just been striking out in the game of love? What if you’ve been single in OC for far too long?

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Have you reached your boiling point? Are you questioning whether it’s even worth it anymore? Have you already thrown in the towel?

You roll your eyes when you see happy couples walking hand in hand. You can’t stand love songs or sappy movies. And you’ve completely sworn off all men. Sound familiar? Are you questioning if you’ve become jaded about love and dating?

Have your past dating experiences made you a love cynic? Find out with the top-rated OC matchmakers at Orange County Singles Dating Service today.

1. Romantic movies make you sick.

It’s understandable to prefer drama/thrillers over sappy chick flicks, but if romantic movies make you sick, you’ve become cynical about love and relationships. If your sole reason for hating romance is seeing others happy and in love, you’ve got some work to do deep within yourself before you can even think about exploring the OC dating scene.

2. Anything love related makes you cringe.

Your coworker received flowers at work today – you refuse to look her way and mumble under your breath as you walk past her desk. Your bestie meets someone online – you roll your eyes. A good-looking guy comes up to you at happy – oh, yeah, you give him a nasty side eye. Complaining about others, rolling your eyes, and making snide remarks and nasty faces seem to be your favorite new cardio.

3. Nobody gets a pass with you.

You won’t give anyone a pass – nope, not even a slight chance. You’re so over dating that you refuse to entertain the thought. In your head, any guy you meet is going to be a loser, a player, a jerk, a deadbeat – a total waste of your time. What do you do to avoid any interaction with guys? You retreat to the safety of your home where you close yourself off from the world.

4. You’re waiting for the day your friends’ significant others to mess up.

You give every one of your friends’ partners a side-eye because you’re waiting for the day they screw up and your friends come crying to you.  You want any minor little tiff to turn into a full-out war so you’re not the only single one left in your social circle. You rub your hands together, just waiting for someone else’s world to come crumbling down.

5. You isolate yourself.

You’ve become a real-life recluse. You’ve been isolating yourself from the OC dating scene but also the whole world. It’s become so bad that you can barely pry yourself from the safety of your bed. Your life no longer has meaning. You eat, sleep, work, and go back to bed. The reality is that you no longer find anything in life to have meaning or enjoyment.

6. You stopped caring for your personal appearance.

Eat, sleep, work, and back to bed. You’re rolling through the motions, day after day. You’ve completely stopped living and caring for yourself. Gym? What’s that? Lunch with coworkers? No thanks. Friday night with your gal pals? Uh-uh, home to your bed it is. Come to think of it, you can’t recall the last time you went to the salon or even styled your hair at home. You’re totally depressed.

As OC matchmakers with over 30 years of experience helping single women in Orange County overcome dating obstacles, we know it’s not easy. We get it, it’s not easy to stay positive in the modern dating scene. But we also know that you’re totally worthy of finding true love and happiness. The first step to finding true love is snapping out of this cynicism you’ve recently found yourself with.

If you’re tired of this depressing state and ready to climb out of this dating rut, let the best OC matchmakers extend a life raft to you. Let us do the hard work of dating for you.

Our professional matchmakers here at Orange County Singles Dating Service will provide you the support and encouragement you need to get back into a positive mindset about life and dating. We’ll get to know you and listen to your frustrations and challenges so we can identify what’s hindering you in your romantic life. We’ll help you overcome those challenges and negative mindsets by creating a customized dating strategy that will help you find your Mr. Right. Let us help you change your feelings about love forever. Let us take you from miserably single in OC to happily-ever-after.

To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!


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